The First Christmas Card, Christmas Stamp, and Santa Claus in America
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Christmas, Xmas, Winter Solstice--whatever anyone calls it--can be about more than just spending money on presents. It can be about expressing love, sharing with others, giving to those in need, regardless of whether you choose to center the holiday around Christ's birth or not. Most of the traditions we observe (candles/lights, greenery, feasting, making merry, etc.) have their roots in times long before Jesus was born. I respect the rights of others to choose to make the season about Jesus and expect that same respect in return, as I choose to center my Christmas on love, family, the simple joys in life, the arrival of winter. For each of us, the season is what we make of it.
Christmas , like Easter are two holidays that are what you make of them. several years ago I started a tradition of my own,for Christmas I had a tree trimming party. For years when I was growing up I saw the mess and the stress and arguments,and so on before the holidays, no one seemed to enjoy any thing of the season.When I moved away from home, I started the tradition,because to me the season meant many things to many people, so I would hand make the invitations, send them to every one I knew, all the neighbors friends, family even the post man the delivery persons and so on. The thing all of them had to do was bring a dish for the pot luck, a trim for the tree, and their family,friends and come to my house on the Saturday before Christmas. I spent a full week making baked goods,candy,and stockings for the children and small gifts to put in the stockings, from craft sticks,clothespins,pine cones, ect.Of course a little candy, usually home made.I have had people tell me that they looked forward to my next parties, and some even started their own.It wasn't the gifts they received when they left that made it notable, it was the idea that they all trimmed the tree together, some even checking out the balance and so on of the ornaments and lights, but most of all it was the sharing the laughing,and a stress buster, with no alcohol. It put everyone in the mood for the Holiday,and they all made new friends. And through the course of the years many made the ornaments for the tree. For me I always thought of Christmas as a time for sharing,not arguing. A time for laughing, not yelling, and giving gifts from the heart ,not how much money you can or cannot spend.I received a musical rendition of green sleeves from a friend of mine one tree party,she played the flute, and her husband cried. it was very moving, and all the others present were moved. That is celebrating a holiday.
As for the comment of not making Christ the meaning to celebrate Christmas. I suppose this would follow leaving prayer out of schools. This is all in the spirit of Anti-Christ to destroy Christ out of our lives. Jesus Christ is the reason for the season. Get to know Jesus the way I do and then you will know why He is first and center of everything. With Love.....Roger
FeistyFeline, I don't know if you will see this or not, I truly hope you do though.
You have renewed my Christmas spirit and I want to say thank you! I am so tired of family bickering, fighting, arguing, and just not getting along at any time I've tried to have a family get together since they grew up! This ones got a problem with another one or with me or somebody else. It's constant drama! I have finally walked away from it all, I'm too old for that. I love your idea. I never liked the idea of going broke buying gifts. I'd much rather have something handmade than a very expensive gift of some sort. I don't have that kind of money and I have 20+ to give to at Christmas. Homemade gifts aren't "good enough" for most of them so what do you do?!?!? I do view Christmas as a religious holiday, the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, but I never heard a word about that. This year, it will be only me. I will see what my neighbors plans are, maybe a nice tree trimming party a week or two before the actual day. Thank you!
What a wonderful tradition you began. Christmas has gone from being a holiday I looked forward to, to one I just try to get through. Here in England, Christmas, at least with the OH's family, is just an excuse to drink and fight more than usual. Oh well.
Why can't we have Christmas like years ago. What happened to the celebration of our Lord's Birthday? What happened to baking gifts for family and friends? All Xmas is today is stress and how much money can we spend. How many presents do I have under the tree!!!!
I too agree that CHRISTMAS is a celebration of our savior's birth. It can continue with you and me remembering the reason we celebrsate this season. "CHRIST" should always be in the holiday CHRISTMAS and never abbreviated in the way that you just did.
You took him out and most likely did not even realize what you had done.
Merry Christmas and God bless to all.
Christmas hasn't changed, it's all about what you want it to be.. We still bake for family and friends; they love our homemade gifts and the kids are delighted with their reaction. We make an advent wreath for the 1st Sunday in Advent and light it every day, with an appropriate prayer; the kids are in the Christmas pageant at church; we buy gifts for children in a shelter. We craft gifts for teachers and friends. We make ornaments of seeds, fruit, suet and peanut butter and decorate the trees for the birds and squirrels. We have a Christmas tree, lots of presents and the whole Santa thing, but the kids know there is a lot more to Christmas than Santa. Christmas is an excellent chance to reinforce the Christian lessons we teach all year.
In making Martha Washington's famed cake, Mount Vernon's curatorial staff followed Mrs. Washington's recipe almost exactly. Where the recipe called for 5 pounds of fruit, without specifying which ones, 2 pounds of raisins, 1 pound of currants, and 2 pounds of apples were used. The wine used was cream sherry. Since no pan large enough was available to hold all the batter, two 14 layers were made and stacked (note: the original was one single tall layer). The layers were baked in a 350 degree oven for 1.5 hours. Should be iced with a very stiff egg-white based icing, flavored with rosewater or orange-flower water.
I don't suppose Martha included the pan sizes or the oven temp for her Great Cake recipe?