Mel, I’m sorry you’ve been treated so badly by your spouse. Sometimes we pick the wrong people to share our life with. It sounds like you were very loving and caring to her and she took you for granted. I have been happily married to my husband for 50 years. I was 19 and he was 21 when we married. I guess we sort of grew up together. We’ve sometimes had problems but we always worked through them. Maybe you and your wife can work things out or maybe you can’t but the way it sounds, you are not at fault. Just pray about your situation. Hopefully, God will give you an answer. I hope so. Be strong.
Mel, I’m sorry you’ve been treated so badly by your spouse. Sometimes we pick the wrong people to share our life with. It sounds like you were very loving and caring to her and she took you for granted. I have been happily married to my husband for 50 years. I was 19 and he was 21 when we married. I guess we sort of grew up together. We’ve sometimes had problems but we always worked through them. Maybe you and your wife can work things out or maybe you can’t but the way it sounds, you are not at fault. Just pray about your situation. Hopefully, God will give you an answer. I hope so. Be strong.