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Take a moment to learn the true meaning of Memorial Day. It鈥檚 important to recognize the difference between this federal holiday and Veterans Day (especially for vets). Also, learn why it was originally called Decoration Day, why the red poppy is a symbol, and when to fly the flag.
When Is Memorial Day 2024?
This U.S. federal holiday is observed on the last Monday of May to honor the men and women who have died while serving in the military. It was formerly known as Decoration Day.
In 2024, Memorial Day will be observed on Monday, May 27.
Memorial Day Dates
Year
Memorial Day
2024
Monday, May 27
2025
Monday, May 26
2026
Monday, May 25
2027
Monday, May 31
What鈥檚 the Difference Between Memorial Day and Veterans Day?
On both Memorial Day and Veterans Day, it鈥檚 customary to spend time remembering and honoring the countless veterans who have served the United States throughout the country鈥檚 history. However, there is a distinction between the two holidays:
Memorial Day commemorates the men and women who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces, particularly those who died in battle or as a result of wounds sustained in battle. In other words, the purpose of Memorial Day is to memorialize the veterans who made the ultimate sacrifice for their country.
You鈥檒l find that some veterans find it dismaying when they are thanked on this day. It鈥檚 a time remembering those who lost their lives and could not come home. We might consider how we can support and safeguard their grieving families and loved ones who are left behind, as well as reflecting on why we鈥攖he living鈥攈ave the luxury and freedom that we enjoy today.
Veterans Day is the day set aside to thank and honor ALL who served in the United States Armed Forces鈥攊n wartime or peacetime鈥攔egardless of whether they died or survived. Veterans Day is always observed officially on November 11, regardless of the day of the week on which it falls. Read more about Veterans Day.
Flying Old Glory
Flag etiquette on Memorial Day is unique. At sunrise, flags are to be raised to full staff briskly, then lowered to a half-staff position, where they will remain until noon. See the guidelines for flying the American Flag.
Traditionally, on Memorial Day (U.S.), volunteers often place small American flags on each grave site at national cemeteries. A national moment of remembrance takes place at 3:00 p.m. local time. Consider visiting a local cemetery to place flags; many organizations would be grateful for volunteers. Contact your local American Legion post, Daughters of the American Revolution, or Boy or Girl Scouts troops.
Memorial Day Facts and History
The custom of honoring ancestors by cleaning cemeteries and decorating graves is an ancient and worldwide tradition. In early rural America, it was usually performed in summer and was an occasion for family reunions and picnics.
The ritual of visiting family graves and memorials was never a morbid tradition. Rather, it was an annual act of remembrance, as well as a chance to clean and decorate family memorials. Often, families would picnic as well; cemeteries were often the only open green spaces in crowded cities.
Memorial Day was originally known as Decoration Day, starting with the American Civil War. It鈥檚 believed that the tradition of honoring the dead was inspired by the way Southern states decorated the graves of both Confederate and Union soldiers with flowers, wreaths, and flags.
Several cities and towns across the country lay claim as the first to observe Decoration Day. On May 5, 1866, Waterloo, New York, hosted its own community-wide event that, in 1966, led to President Lyndon Johnson declaring the town as the birthplace of Decoration Day.
Meanwhile, on May 5, 1868, inspired by the suggestion of veteran Maj. Gen. John A. Logan, commander-in-chief of the Grand Army of the Republic (a fraternal organization of Union Civil War veterans), issued General Order No. 11, designating the 30th of May as an annual day of remembrance. The idea caught on.
With the Civil War, America鈥檚 need to honor its military dead became prominent as monuments were raised and ceremonies centering on the decoration of soldiers鈥 graves were held in towns and cities throughout the nation.
After World War I, Decoration Day included all fallen soldiers, not just those from the Civil War, and the term 鈥淢emorial Day鈥 started being used. By World War II, Memorial Day became the term in more common usage across different states, adopting resolutions to make it an official holiday.
Finally, in 1971, Memorial Day became a national holiday by an act of Congress. When the 1968 Uniform Monday Holiday Act took effect in 1971, a few federal holidays were moved to Monday to create three-day weekends; Memorial Day was set to occur on the last Monday in May.
Since it all started with the Civil War, you might want to brush up on your knowledge of this event by visiting the , which includes more than a thousand photographs from the time.
Why Is The Poppy A Symbol of Memorial Day?
In the war-torn battlefields of Europe, the common red field poppy (Papaver rhoeas) was one of the first plants to reappear. Its seeds scattered in the wind and sat dormant in the ground, only germinating when the ground was disturbed鈥攁s it was by the very brutal fighting of World War 1.
John McCrae, a Canadian soldier and physician, witnessed the war firsthand and was inspired to write the now-famous poem 鈥淚n Flanders Fields鈥 in 1915. (See below for the poem.) He saw the poppies scattered throughout the battlefield surrounding his artillery position in Belgium.
The Poppy Lady
In November 1918, days before the official end of the war, an American professor named Moina Michael wrote her own poem, 鈥淲e Shall Keep the Faith,鈥 which was inspired by McCrae鈥檚 鈥淚n Flanders Fields.鈥 In her poem (also shown below), she mentioned wearing the 鈥減oppy red鈥 to honor the dead, and with that, the tradition of adorning one鈥檚 clothing with a single red poppy in remembrance of those killed in the Great War was born. Moina herself came to be known鈥攁nd honored鈥攁s 鈥淭he Poppy Lady.鈥
The Symbol Spreads Abroad
The poppy was traditionally worn on Memorial Day in the United States, but the symbolism has evolved to encompass all veterans, living and deceased, so that poppies may be worn on Veterans Day as well. Not long after the custom began, it was adopted by other Allied nations, including Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom, where it is still popular today. In these countries, the poppy is worn on Remembrance Day (November 11).
Today, poppies are not only a symbol of the loss of life but also of recovery and new life, especially in support of the servicemen who survived the war but suffered from physical and psychological injuries long after it ended.
Read the text of both poems below, and learn more about the .
鈥淚n Flanders Fields鈥
by John McCrae, May 1915
In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below.
We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders fields.
Take up our quarrel with the foe: To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields.
鈥淲e Shall Keep the Faith鈥
by Moina Michael, November 1918
Oh! you who sleep in Flanders Fields, Sleep sweet 鈥 to rise anew! We caught the torch you threw And holding high, we keep the Faith With All who died.
We cherish, too, the poppy red That grows on fields where valor led; It seems to signal to the skies That blood of heroes never dies, But lends a lustre to the red Of the flower that blooms above the dead In Flanders Fields.
And now the Torch and Poppy Red We wear in honor of our dead. Fear not that ye have died for naught; We鈥檒l teach the lesson that ye wrought In Flanders Fields.
Memorial Day Weekend: The Unofficial Start of Summer
Memorial Day tends to mark the unofficial start of summer for many Americans (though the season really begins with the Summer Solstice in mid-June).
Memorial Day Recipes
On Memorial Day weekend, we also enjoy the extra time spent with family and friends, sharing a meal. If you鈥檙e planning a backyard barbecue or a picnic, here are some of our favorite recipes:
From everyone here at The Old Farmer鈥檚 蜜桃恋人, we would like to say thank you to those men and women who paid the ultimate price. We will always remember the sacrifices of our nation鈥檚 heroes. We are deeply grateful.
In remembering the fallen, we also honor their loved ones: spouses, fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, sisters, brothers, and friends. There aren鈥檛 proper words, but we do live in gratitude each and every day for the precious gift that they have given to us.
How do you honor the fallen on Memorial Day? We welcome reading about your traditions and memories.
Catherine Boeckmann loves nature, stargazing, and gardening so it鈥檚 not surprising that she and The Old Farmer鈥檚 蜜桃恋人 found each other. She leads digital content for the 蜜桃恋人 website, and is also a certified master gardener in the state of Indiana. Read More from Catherine Boeckmann
We in our Sunday school class of adults pass out the names of fallen heroes from the last 12 months so that our members can think about those heroes and pray for their families.
I belong to the forgotten group of Explorer Scouts who were to be in the Vietnam war and serve America where needed. My Family goes back to 1640 in Stokes And the Nelson side are kin to Thomas Nelson Jr. blood line also the WM. Blunt is kin to me. He was a signer of the Constitution & Bill of Rights. I am the last Langley, Stokes, Nelson, Jolly, Hart and Quick family member. I shall ask that all people remember the founding Fathers Families and their gift of Freedom, Liberty, & Life with the Rights to worship at any place fit for mankind because the Army that was to fight for you died in the fields of blood for all.
I was born in 1940 and have vivid childhood memories of Memorial Day. Peonies in our yard were always blooming at that time of year and my mother would cut them and then my whole family would visit graves and leave flowers on them. Some of these graves were military, but most of them were close family members who had passed on. Then, there was a huge military parade -- bands, majorettes and the most inspiring music! These are some of my favorite memories. Fast-forward to today -- my husband recently passed away and I wanted to put some flowers on his grave for Memorial Day. My grown children were dumbfounded and told me we are only to put flowers on deceased veterans' graves. I know for a fact that in years past some of my acquaintances here (Calvert County, MD) were going to visit family graves (taking flowers) on Memorial Day and they were not veterans' graves. FYI - I grew up in Allegany County, MD. Feel like I am caught in a time-warp!
Last few years I visited Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery and paid my respects to the brave fallen ones and prayed for their families. I also remember my older brother who served in the US Navy and sponsored me to come live in America. I live 8 hours drive from there and being that we are still under lock-down in many cities I will be home reflecting on each service member who gave his/her life serving our country so we can live free!
I wake up on Memorial Day morning and remember my visit to the Arizona Memorial in pictures revisited of a vacation In Hawaii with my Parents and my Husband on a trip to Oahu in 1998. I have my coffee and put out our American Flag for the neighborhood to see. Half Staff until Noon. I'll post a song by Frank Marino and Mahogny Rush entitled "Stories of a Hero" on my Face Book page. My Husband and I will watch some documentaries and movies on Wars past. I will play "Taps" at sunset. A personal day of remembrance and reflection.
I am so glad to see this information available on the internet. Many of the youth of our nation are not made aware of the meaning of Memorial Day and Veteran's Day. Many people celebrate it because they get a day off from work or school. The sacrifices made by others to allow Americans to live in a wonderful country where freedom and personal rights are protected is the true reason for celebration. It's a lovely sight to see the flags flying in graveyards and in towns across America.